blue-eyed male, and by May he was engaged. The happy couple has scheduled

their wedding for Saturday, October 19.

Those of us who are romantics at U.S. 1 are pretty delighted about

this, as are the bride and groom, and they agreed to share their stories.

"Part of a good match is luck, part is what you put into it,"

says the bride. "Both of us have had our hearts broken in the

past."

The bride, Claire Eggers, works in the managed care contracts department

at Novo Nordisk Pharmaceuticals on College Road West, and she says

that if the man she is to marry had been described to her, "I

would have thought he was not my type."

Her groom was an Eagle Scout, Order of the Arrow. "And I have

never been in a tent in my life," says Eggers. He is also a zealous

student of medieval astrology, "and I wouldn’t think that was

my thing," says Eggers. "Also he is not necessarily of my

political persuasion. Yet I hear my three-year-old son tell him things

he never tells me. He is a very serious and reliable person."

The groom, Sam Hewitt, is a classical pianist turned commodities trader.

The son of an Episcopal priest and a music teacher, he spent his teenage

years in Houston and majored in music at the University of Montana.

He works for a Princeton-based firm and analyzes the broad, long-term

trends of the global market.

This will be Hewitt’s first marriage. He has dated women he found

through personal ads on Yahoo and through Internet dating services.

"And several years ago I did the Russian fiancee thing through

the Internet, but my fiancee went back and decided to stay there.

So I decided to stay with American women."

Of course, with his interest in astrology, he carefully timed the

placement of the singles ad according to his chart, and he says that

Eggers’ response was definitely the right one. "Historically I

have gone out with older women, and that is in my chart," he says.

A regular reader of U.S. 1’s arts and entertainment section, Hewitt

used the newspaper to find the destination for his first date with

Eggers, a production at the Murray-Dodge theater on the Princeton

University campus.

Eggers, who has been married, tells this story: "I

had not dated for a couple of years, and I kept putting it off. I

spent nine months like Hamlet saying I really should act. Last year,

early in September, I noticed the singles section in U.S. 1 and saw

Sam’s ad. He sounded interesting, and I thought at least I wouldn’t

be bored. On Monday, September 10, I was stuck somewhere in a car

in the rainstorm, so I answered the ad and mailed it that day. Had

I waited another day I might not have answered it. I have a strong

feeling of fate on this one."

"I heard from Sam on Thursday, and it seemed like a year had gone

by. We met. Being very methodical, Sam was dating all the people who

answered the ad, and I was the third one to write. I knew the ad would

run for at least a week beyond our first date. I heard a `Thank

you,’ that’s all, so I thought, `I can do this too,’" says Eggers.

She ran her own ad:

Slender, Pretty SWF: with small human puppy in

tow. Professional, independent, throw great parties. 44 years old

(no way!); fit and active. Talented: can change diaper, sip coffee

and talk on the phone all at the same time. Privileged, many years

abroad; fluent in French. Passions include good coffee, hot baths,

the woods, the kitchen, disarmament, scathing analysis of the Republican

regime. Is there a man out there who can excite my mind? — the

rest is easy.

the responses," says Eggers. "Probably five were serial killers

but at least half were talented, funny, intelligent, available people,

well adjusted. One was a university professor and one wrote me such

a funny response that we are still friends. But I had my eye on Sam

the whole time. I told him he was really my first choice."

For dating purposes Eggers had limited her use of the Internet to

due diligence. "I had looked quite a bit at the various sites,

but I didn’t want to take that step. I did a search on Sam on the

Internet and checked out some of the composers that he really likes.

I found some papers he and written, and the grammar was impeccable

— I was so impressed."

"By Christmas I knew I was going to be his date for the Christmas

party and was pretty pleased about that," she says. "By Valentine’s

Day we were quite serious." By Memorial Day they were engaged.

Eggers’ father was an international banker, and she spent part of

her childhood in Paris and Geneva (she named her son "Paris").

She spent her teenage years in Princeton, going to Princeton High

School and then to Wesleyan University, graduating in 1979. Because

her then boyfriend’s U.S. visa was expiring she moved with him to

Canada, "and to stay I had to get married." After 12 years

there she came home and worked first for the Carrier Clinic, then

in New York for an insurance firm, coincidentally right across the

street from where her future husband was living at the time.

At the time he placed the ad, Hewitt had an apartment in Plainsboro

but is now ensconced, with his Baldwin upright piano, in Eggers’ spacious

Ewing home, where he has earned the title "Daddy Dinosaur"

from Eggers’ son, named Paris, aka Baby Dinosaur.

The wedding will be in Yardley, and Hewitt’s father will help officiate.

"We are going to be fairly traditional — we are trying to

make it a great party but are not going to take people hostage for

five hours," says Eggers. She has never had a church wedding,

and surprised herself by choosing a traditional gown, complete with

train. Her only attendant will be her son. "I told Sam you are

marrying both of us," says Eggers. "And we would like to have

a bigger family any which way we can."

U.S. 1 singles ads (see page 39) must be working: we get a steady

flow of responses and this is the second wedding couple that told

us they found each other in U.S. 1.

May there be many more. Follow your instinct, Eggers advises. "If

you are to draw the person you won’t draw the person you need. There

is always that element of magic and surprise and total serendipity."

— Barbara Fox

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